maybe because i'm not an expert in it.....
or maybe i think love is about intuition...
so it came across my mind to write about it.... (haish, i need to finish DR huda's work first, okay2 sat lgi~ :P )
i read blogs that people wrote about their love life... some of them are very romantic like leonardo di caprio type of love... hehe
i do watch titanic~
a liitle~
mmm , at a glance it seems so perfect.... nice2 word.... nice2 event occur.... i mean the things that the person wrote.... enjoying themselves very much..... but after a while everything seems wrong.... problems here and there,... break ups and they start insulting each other....
i do laugh when this thing occur.... its not that i like it to happen but sometimes i feel it very funny....
i dunno why~
hmm, let us see this in a very realistic way~because i'm not an expert .... but i can think a bit....
do u knoe what love is really all about?
my lecturer Dr Huda had xplained to us in a very comprehensive way what love is....
she told us that love is blind ove is without any reason.... and god created this feeling to us.... feeling of wanted to be care and care for other people...
love is without doubt a sign of God.... but do we really understand what love really is about?
and what is love without submitting ourselves to ALLAH as He is the cherisher of all things....
i know some people have a lot of break ups and they tend to find different lover at diffrent interval.... and they said to each lover that this is love??
isnt loves sppose to be for the one and only??? if u said u r in love with 4 to 5 diffferent people can that be consider as love?
what i can think is that lust dominates the feeling rather than love....
love suppose to be pure~ for me~
love happens without any reason and it has to be continue with the bond of marriage..... there are lots of division that i learnt to have a bond and one of it is khitbah....
khitbah is some sort of informal engagement... where ur parents and the other parents and u and her agreed to be together one day~
but still u cannot give everything to ur couple..... the rules is the same... no touching, no khalwah not even staring too much.... jage adab....
because if i give evrything now what will u give in the futre.... ur cuple will be boring of course...
man doesnt mind if they could touch u now, because the only thing we care is to satisfy our desire... women is very precious... but most men doesn't consider them that way...
so u have to make them wait for u..... wait till the bond of marriage where true love comes....
and that is what love truly is.... after the bond of marriage... :)
and yet i don't know much about this things~
i'm learning~
i'm sory if i hurt anyone.... i'm just tellin~~ :)


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